Why Can't This Generation Get It Together ?!?!

Soooooo I was thinking and...my generation is screwed up beyond explanation .

Like how is it possible that us girls chase these guys who only wanna lay up under you and possess that sweet temple of yours ?

What happen to wanting a guy who not only has goals for himself, but is doing something about it ?
What happen to wanting a guy who would rather stay at home and watch movies instead of clubbing every other night ?
What happen to us wanting a man who would one day be a good father and a great person for your future children to look up to ?

Now a days, we've gotten so caught up in the images and personas of people , especially on Instagram, that we've forgotten how to even hold a regular conversation in person. We don't even have conversations over the phone anymore. We validate if someone is worth our time simply by what they're texting us. And half of the time, the person isn't even real with you to begin with !

I am so sick and tired of running into the same type of dudes and dealing with the same type of stuff and drama. Like I know guys can be assholes a lot but us females are just as guilty. That's the problem. Females don't want to admit when they're wrong and at fault. We have to be able to look at ourselves and evaluate what we need to work on and what needs to be improved. We demand that the guy we're involved with needs to be LOYAL, HONEST, TRUSTWORTHY, CARING, GOAL-ORIENTED, IN SCHOOL, GETS $$, APPRECIATIVE, & LOVING, etc. But if we can't even provide to him even 3 of these characteristics to him, how the HELL can we expect him to be that for us ?!!?! Where is the logic in that ?

I'm not perfect. I've made many mistakes in the past and I do not pass judgement on anyone AT ALL. But ladies, we've got to do better. Everyone deserves to be happy but that happiness won't come if you won't willingly work on yourself for the better.



Peace, Love, & Blessings
Bianca D